Comments on: Synastry Studies: The Fixed Cross and the Urge to Merge (Part Two) http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two Astrology with Dawn Bodrogi Wed, 01 May 2013 16:56:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Dawn Bodrogi http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/#comment-1606 Dawn Bodrogi Tue, 04 Oct 2011 21:28:24 +0000 http://theinnerwheel.com/?p=1640#comment-1606 Hi, Baaki. It's absolutely related. With your packed second house, you're very comfortable with what you have within yourself, you know where you stand. But the eighth house is about where we merge, where we surrender what we own in order to meld with another and create something new. All of the water houses carry a little death about them--in the eighth house we test what we have (Scorpio) in order to discover the truth of what we have. This is a terrifying prospect to someone without much emphasis on the 8th. There is a Scorpio shadow that arises when we put up our defenses--which is what we do when confronted with the eighth. It becomes a battle, rather than a merging. You have to trust what you own, and trust the process of merging with another. Otherwise you will never know if what you have is really your own. Hi, Baaki. It’s absolutely related. With your packed second house, you’re very comfortable with what you have within yourself, you know where you stand. But the eighth house is about where we merge, where we surrender what we own in order to meld with another and create something new. All of the water houses carry a little death about them–in the eighth house we test what we have (Scorpio) in order to discover the truth of what we have. This is a terrifying prospect to someone without much emphasis on the 8th. There is a Scorpio shadow that arises when we put up our defenses–which is what we do when confronted with the eighth. It becomes a battle, rather than a merging. You have to trust what you own, and trust the process of merging with another. Otherwise you will never know if what you have is really your own.

]]> By: Baaki http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/#comment-1603 Baaki Tue, 04 Oct 2011 08:12:08 +0000 http://theinnerwheel.com/?p=1640#comment-1603 Hello Dawn.. I have 4 planets in my second house(Mercury/venus/mars/Jupiter).. and the house ruler Sun conjuncts Chiron and opposes Saturn sharply. I hate messing you up with details. I recently began to get close to a guy whose Sun sits on my empty eight..and he seriously makes me get scared of what would happen if I get close to him. I feel like I am a brick wall without cement who would crumble if I got too close to him. I don,t wanna have this fear..I always have this urgent feeling that I quickly and somehow need to become stronger than him. Is this somehow related?? Hello Dawn..

I have 4 planets in my second house(Mercury/venus/mars/Jupiter).. and the house ruler Sun conjuncts Chiron and opposes Saturn sharply.

I hate messing you up with details.

I recently began to get close to a guy whose Sun sits on my empty eight..and he seriously makes me get scared of what would happen if I get close to him. I feel like I am a brick wall without cement who would crumble if I got too close to him. I don,t wanna have this fear..I always have this urgent feeling that I quickly and somehow need to become stronger than him. Is this somehow related??

]]> By: sebt http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/#comment-715 sebt Fri, 28 Jan 2011 22:31:29 +0000 http://theinnerwheel.com/?p=1640#comment-715 Wow, this is good. I think I've read most of your posts over the last week or so; will take a lot of time to absorb it! Wow, this is good. I think I’ve read most of your posts over the last week or so; will take a lot of time to absorb it!

]]> By: alcuin9 http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/#comment-714 alcuin9 Thu, 02 Sep 2010 17:49:55 +0000 http://theinnerwheel.com/?p=1640#comment-714 Thanks so much for remembering. I'm touched. Thanks so much for remembering. I’m touched.

]]> By: annewhitaker http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/#comment-713 annewhitaker Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:57:02 +0000 http://theinnerwheel.com/?p=1640#comment-713 Hi Dawn Happy Birthday! Googlemail has been thwarting me all day so this is my best shot. Speak soon Anne Hi Dawn

Happy Birthday!

Googlemail has been thwarting me all day so this is my best shot.

Speak soon

Anne

]]> By: nray http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/#comment-712 nray Tue, 31 Aug 2010 18:05:30 +0000 http://theinnerwheel.com/?p=1640#comment-712 Wonderful post, thank you for sharing. Wonderful post, thank you for sharing.

]]> By: alcuin9 http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/#comment-711 alcuin9 Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:39:40 +0000 http://theinnerwheel.com/?p=1640#comment-711 Someone recently asked me to define the difference between the 'old' astrology and the 'new' astrology. And the main difference is that modern astrology is developmental and evolutionary. Modern astrology is a tool for discovering what we need to do in this life in order to find fulfillment. So yes, experience can show us the way forward. Also, remember that when a house is 'empty' we look at the ruler of that house for guidance. Transits and progressions to and from that house ruler are very important. So if Capricorn is ruling your second house, or is a secondary ruler of that house, Saturn does become your guide. Someone recently asked me to define the difference between the ‘old’ astrology and the ‘new’ astrology. And the main difference is that modern astrology is developmental and evolutionary. Modern astrology is a tool for discovering what we need to do in this life in order to find fulfillment. So yes, experience can show us the way forward.

Also, remember that when a house is ‘empty’ we look at the ruler of that house for guidance. Transits and progressions to and from that house ruler are very important. So if Capricorn is ruling your second house, or is a secondary ruler of that house, Saturn does become your guide.

]]> By: whatnow http://theinnerwheel.com/2010/08/30/synastry-studies-the-fixed-cross-and-the-urge-to-merge-part-two/#comment-710 whatnow Tue, 31 Aug 2010 13:40:47 +0000 http://theinnerwheel.com/?p=1640#comment-710 Dawn, " An emphasis on the eighth house without a strong second house to back it up means that we will not know what we bring to the table in terms of relationships". I have Sun,Mercury and Saturn crammed into the 8th under Cancer and an empty second house. It used to feel like that , now in mid thirties, I feel differently. Would it be a function of Saturn or just good 'ol experience and some re-scripting on my part after a serious study of my approach to relationships ? Thanks for all this great learning you give us! Dawn, ” An emphasis on the eighth house without a strong second house to back it up means that we will not know what we bring to the table in terms of relationships”. I have Sun,Mercury and Saturn crammed into the 8th under Cancer and an empty second house. It used to feel like that , now in mid thirties, I feel differently. Would it be a function of Saturn or just good ‘ol experience and some re-scripting on my part after a serious study of my approach to relationships ? Thanks for all this great learning you give us!

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