The seventh house: Ring Around the Relationship Rosy

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The seventh house in astrology — other, partnership, and the mirror to the self
The seventh house — not just marriage. Anyone who isn’t you.

People get excited about the seventh house because they think it has everything to do with marriage and permanent partnerships. It’s understandable — the seventh does represent those things, but that’s not all. It stands for much, much more.

The seventh house, you see, rules Other. In other words, anyone who isn’t me.

 

Houses as Relationships

Ring around the rosey — the seventh house and house sequencing in astrology

What’s so fascinating is the way the houses can represent exact relationships. My niece is represented by my seventh house — because the seventh house is the fifth house from the third house, which represents my brother. If you start counting from the third (as one), the fourth house is the second, the fifth house is the third, the sixth house is the fourth, and the seventh house is the fifth — my brother’s child.

My brother’s wife would be represented by my ninth house — opposite the third. Her mother by my twelfth — fourth to the ninth. Her sister by my 11th — third to the ninth.

One of the reasons that grandparents identify so much more easily with their grandchildren is that our grandparents are represented by our 1st and 7th axis — the fourth and tenth houses to the natal fourth and tenth houses. I had one grandparent representing each end — a pleasant, fair, easygoing grandpa who embodied my first house Libra Mercury, and an aggressive, difficult grandmother who was the epitome of Mars on the Descendant.

It’s good practice to check these patterns out when things happen to other people in our lives. So next time a big transit lands in your chart and it doesn’t directly affect you, take a look at the others in your life who may be affected. The results may surprise you.

— Dawn Bodrogi

 

Polarity Points and Planetary Development

Seventh house astrology — polarity points and house sequencing
The polarity point represents what the planet does not have in and of itself — the Other it must incorporate to evolve.

When we use the polarity point of a planet — the point opposite the natal position — we are treating that opposing point as if it were in a seventh house relationship to the planet. It represents the energy the planet does not have in and of itself. It is Other to the planet, and represents what must be incorporated in order for the planet to evolve. It also represents the shadow side of the planet, much the way the Descendant represents our own darker tendencies which may be unconscious.

But you might want to resolve this planetary development by looking at the points square to the planet, both applying and separating. The applying square will represent the fourth house to the planet — the problems inherent in its grounding and stability. The separating square represents the tenth house to the planet — the qualities it must ultimately assume in order to function in the world.

 

The 12th House Sequence

It can be interesting to look at the houses in 12th position to one another. The twelfth house is 12th in relation to the first — but this continues in sequence. The first house is 12th to the second, the second is 12th to the third, the third is 12th to the fourth, and so on. What this means is that the house prior to the house in question holds the secret to its rebirth and regeneration.

If we have Jupiter in the second, resolving those Jupiter issues will work to reform the third house dynamic.

If we have Pluto in the fourth, our work with emotional stability and resolving conflicts with family will help to create the change needed for our creative expression in the fifth. This is different from having Pluto itself in the fifth, which forces us to confront our own creative power directly.

You can play these games ad infinitum — and you can make yourself crazy with them. I’m offering this just for fun. So next time a big transit lands in your chart and it doesn’t directly affect you, take a look at the others in your life who may be affected. The results may surprise you.

 

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The seventh house rules Other — in other words, anyone who isn’t you.

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